Interracial Marriage as a way of Bonding Races
What is the meaning of love? Can one fall in love at first sight? Does everyone have a soul-mate or is love based on physical attraction alone? Should one’s family have the power to decide who one should marry? How does interracial marriage affect American society? These are all extremely difficult questions to answer that require a great deal of consideration. Love is the magical connection between two people that intertwines the souls in a miraculous way. Although many people claim to fall in love at first sight, their opinions of compatibility are based strictly on physical appearance rather than the soul which lies deep within the individual. There is someone meant for everyone in life, making love an extremely difficult decision that one must make on his or her own. In order to find true love, one must follow the heart and not be influenced by the biased decisions of others who often lack an understanding of the special connection that a couple may share. People tend to create a list of credentials, based on social construction, which one must meet in order to be accepted as a part of the family, as well as a part of society.
A major credential in determining the acceptance of an individual in a family and in a society is race. Quite often, family members feel that a person of a different race only taints the image of their family and should not be accepted. This notion is directly connected to the prevailing concepts of segregation and race-based social order in American society. One should not allow something as superficial as race hold them back from the person they truly love, nor should race restrain someone from equal opportunities within a society. According to the article “Ten Truths of Interracial Marriage,” interracial couples often share the same feelings for one another and are as compatible as same-race couples (Root 572). Interracial couples also marry for the same reasons that same-race couples do and are united in the same way (Root 572). Since the elements and motivation of interracial marriage are so closely related to those of same-race marriage, interracial marriage is an excellent way of bonding races. Since the success of interracial marriages proves that, beyond skin color, blacks and whites are essentially the same, interracial marriages should be unanimously accepted and encouraged in American society as a way of ceasing segregation and race-based social order in the
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Although race relations have come a long way, there is still vast room for improvement. One of the current problems in the
Although the world’s population consists of various skin colors, merely one species of mankind exists on Earth. Marvin Harris’s article “How Our Skins Got Their Color” explains that skin color is strictly dependent on the environment and has no relevance to one’s character, intellect, or abilities. The article depicts a person’s skin color as a result of varying amounts of sunlight that people are vulnerable to in different parts of the world and the amount of melanin needed for the body to protect the skin from the sun’s harmful ultra-violet rays (Harris 8). This explains one of the main reasons behind the success of interracial marriages. Interracial marriages are as successful as same-race marriages because beneath the color of our skin, we are all the same. Interracial marriages demonstrate the fact that race reveals nothing genetic about character and shows that people of different races are capable of sharing similar beliefs, loving one another, and contentedly coexisting. Although characteristics vary between individuals, specific characteristics do not differ between races. Each individual, regardless of skin color, possesses their own unique set of abilities, interests, and beliefs; therefore, people should not be grouped or prejudged according to race.
Each individual possesses their own unique qualities and interests which people often attempt to presume through racial identity. The movie A Day in Black and White demonstrates that many Americans’ impression formations result in race prejudice and the assumption of one’s characteristics, interests, intellect, and athletic ability according to racial identity. For example, Michael, one of the main characters from the movie, states that the quarterback position in the N.F.L is dominated by white people. He then explains that this is because scouts feel that whites are better leaders and more intellectually inclined to handle the responsibility of the quarterback position. Contrary to this belief, blacks are equally as likely as whites to be successful quarterbacks because skin color has no relevance to a characteristic such as leadership or the intellect of a human being. The fact that people presume one’s traits based on physical appearance is completely ridiculous. Likewise, the fact that many people assume compatibility through skin color is equally outlandish. As depicted in the movie Something New, it is quite possible for a person to fall in love with someone of a different race because race has no relevance to the character of an individual. In the movie, Kendra immediately rejects Brian for the simple reason that he is white. Since Brian is white, he does not meet one of the major credentials on Kendra’s socially constructed list. Once Kendra becomes more acquainted with Brian, she begins to fall in love with his personality as well as his physical appearance proving that people of opposite races can share similarities and physical attraction for one another which are two of the essential components of compatibility.
Kendra’s immediate refusal of Brian is an excellent example of the inaccurate prejudgment people often make based strictly on race. It is impossible to speculate the inner-person of an individual based on exterior appearance. Although some may argue that their attraction toward their own race is a preference rather than a prejudice, others argue that this preference is a prejudiced belief. For example, during a scene from Something New, Brian says, “You prefer to be prejudice.” However, in some cases, the preference to date one’s own race is legitimate because it is only natural for a person to find their own race more sexually appealing than the opposite race. A person who refuses to date the opposite race may not necessarily hold negative, prejudice beliefs; but instead, he or she may simply lack a sexual desire for the opposite race. This lack of attraction is not a prejudiced belief; however, the process of presuming whether or not someone shares similar interests and beliefs based the race of an individual is a prejudiced notion.
It is not necessary for everyone to marry a person of the opposite race. This would be impossible because, many times, people are attracted to members of their own race. However, everyone must make a cohesive effort to support interracial marriage in the
Works Cited
Blumer, Herbert. “Race Prejudice as a Sense of Group Position.” The Pacific Sociological Review volume 1 (1958): p.3-7.
Harris, Marvin. “How Our Skins Got Their Color.” Our Kind: Who We Are, Where We Came from and Where We Are Going (1989): p.112-114.
Root, Maria. “Ten Truths of Interracial Marriage.” Love’s Revolution: Interracial Marriage (2001).
A Day in Black and White. Dir. Desmond Hall. Perf. Harold Perrineau,
Carolyn Nerff. DVD.
Something New. Dr. Sanaa Hamri. Perf. Sanaa Lathan, K.C. Clyde, Simon Baker. DVD.
